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I've been busy--primarily because last week was midquarter--midquarter of THIRD QUARTER.  It is incredibly hard to believe that the school year has been whizzing by so quickly.

I am losing too many good and fun kids to adulthood this year.  Time needs to slow down.  I'm not finished enjoying their presence yet.

Not even close.

:(

Anyhow--

Last week is pretty much a blur in my mind right now.  It was stressful as so many kids have just blown off three weeks worth of work in my Music as Lit class--Their assignment was simple and (I think) really fun.
  • Choose a song you like.
  • Get a copy of the lyrics.
  • "Analyze" the lyrics (ie Write a short paper explaining what they mean to you.  Include a paragraph telling why this song appeals to you.  Give a little background on the artist who performs the song.
  • Put together a digital slide show OR a poster board containing images that illustrate the meaning of this song.  (Your own interpretation.)
  • Play the song for the class.
  • Present your slide show or poster to the class and share your analysis and what you learned about the artist.
They had three weeks to do this.  Three freaking weeks.  The kids who got to work on it right away had it done in three days.  And they really enjoyed the activity. 

sigh.

I get frustrated when people just don't make an effort. 

Hopefully this week will be better. 

Anyhow--enough bitching.

On Friday, i managed to get most of my correcting done before I went home.  I rode with Susan, so I just chilled on the way home.  It came to my attention that Gran Torino was playing in Kasson.  I have wanted to see that movie since it came out.  

Susan dropped me off in my driveway at 3:30 pm.  The movie started at 4 pm.  I didn't have enough cash on me, and going into the house to fetch some cash would have made me late for the movie.  I did have a $19 check from mom in my billfold, so I went through the drive through of the bank and cashed it.  Then I headed to Kasson.  I made it right at 4 pm, and was happy to find a parking spot right across the street.  i dashed in, bought my ticket, some popcorn, and a bottle of water.  The theater was packed,and I had to sit in a 4-seat row with two other people.  I felt uncomfortable.  I prefer a wide berth.

Anyhow, the movie was excellent.  It was surprisingly both tender and sad.  (In addition to being a racial slur fest of epic proportions.  However, the purpose of that was to show Walt's evolution from an ethnocentric grumpy pants to a more culturally aware not-so-grumpy pants.)  A lot of people left the theater sniffling when it was over.    

His relationship with his sons made me feel sad.  It reminded me of how my own father just didn't really connect with us kids.  I feel like I hardly knew the real him.  around us, he was completely absorbed in his TV sports events.  There were very few times when he actually just sat and visited with us about life.  Maybe he just didn't know how. 

God knows his own parents were pathetic and useless.  It's no wonder he had such poor parenting skills himself.

Ah, well.

When I came out of the theater, I discovered that I had parked in a very poorly marked handicapped space.  I about peed my pants.  but there was no ticket on my windshield, so I guess I dodged  the bullet.  There was no sign in front of the spot, and the icon on the road was all covered with slush and ice.  I could just barely see a little piece of it sticking out from under the snow when I pulled out. 

So, that was a little scary.

When I got home, I heated up my left over beans and hot dogs then went upstairs and called my mom.  I was going to have a short nap, then get up and clean the bathroom and pick up the big pile of crap that had formed next to my bed.

Well, I woke up from my "nap" at 3:30 am.  So, I put on my pjs, turned off the lights, and went back to sleep.  when I awoke in the morning, I cleaned the toilet and the sink, sacked up a lot of upstairs garbage, and cleaned out the mess next to my bed.  Then I sorted out some fabric I wanted to bring home to mom's as she had volunteered to cut out some patterns for me.

When I had finished that, I went downstairs and packed my laundry in my big suitcase.  Then I threw it into the car and headed for Ellendale.  I made a stop at Starbucks for a green tea  frappachino, which is one of my current obsessions.  When I got to Ellendale, I made a stop at Lerbergs to pick up a couple of pounds of Hope butter.  That is the very best butter ever made.

Mom and I just hung out on Saturday.  We watched several episodes of Burn Notice.  Later we watched Clean House.  We had popcorn for lunch and she made a very tasty roast beef with potatoes, carrots, and cabbage in her crock pot.  I sewed all day and she cut out doll clothes for me.

On Sunday, she made waffles for breakfast.  This is solid evidence that mom is so thrilled to have me visiting.  I have always been an enormous fan of waffles, and she has always said that they are too much work.  she made me waffles for breakfast the last time I was home too.  :) 

We watched some Lifetime movie called "A Father for Brittany;"  it was, of course, a real tear jerker which contained death, insensitive officials strangling the human heart with red tape, an adorable little Asian baby girl, and the evolution of Andrew McCarthy from a callow youth to a sure-enough, growed up man.

We met Jack and Kari and the kids at the Chinese restaurant in Owatonna (the one near Walmart).  Cora ate a cup of chocolate pudding and Caleb ate some noodles.  I don't think we should have had to pay for them.   Cora was a little shy and stand-offish at first, but i teased her about eating frog legs so she could jump really high.  Then Caleb brought me a cream puff.  I separated the top from the bottom and made it look like the cream puff was talking to her.  Then I stuck a broken piece of fortune cookie into the top of it and made it say, "Look, I've got a hat.  Do you like my hat?  Hey!  Hey, you!  Do you like my hat?"  She started giggling then.  After that, I stuck a piece of fortune cookie in the center, so it stuck out like a tongue.  That set her off again.

It was pretty amusing.  She cannot resist me.  Mwa ha ha.


Mom and I went home right after that (well, I took her to Target as she wanted some photo sticky tabs, but they were out of them).  We watched a couple of Clean House episodes.  I sewed, and she cut out some doll clothes patterns for me.

Poor mom's eyes are still not functioning like they should be, and that is very frustrating for her.  She is hoping that her vision will improve more after she has her cataract surgury.  I hope it does too.  It breaks my heart to see her fretting about her vision.

Jack and Kari and the kids came over after a bit and we played a rousing game of Settlers of Katan.  Though I was getting NOTHING in the beginning of the game, I somehow managed to win.  whoo.  My victory was only because I had good brick and wood numbers and could build a really long road.  The "Longest Road" points were what allowed me the victory.

We just hung out and talked after that.  I didn't start for home until after 6 pm. 

I stopped for a cheese burger at Burger King as I did not feel like cooking anything when I got home.  Their medium drinks are enormous.  I had to get up to pee like 5 times last night, and I only drank about half of it.

When I got home, I unpacked my suitcase and hauled the clean laundry upstairs.  I didn't put it all away yet.  I will do that when I get home tonight.    I filled my pill caddies and watched an episode of House.  I turned on my computer, thinking I'd read some of my kids' creative writing journals, but I was so tired I couldn't keep my eyes open.  I ended up sleeping from 8:30 til about 9:15, then I woke up, turned off the computer, and went to bed.  i'd had enough for one day, I guess.




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And now that I have actually turned on the computer, I don't feel like it.

Kim and I were supposed to go see the movie The Day the Earth Stood Still today, but it turned out to be a rather shitty day with freezing drizzle and sleet and snow and icy roads, so we decided to forget about it.

It turned out to be a pretty good thing as I got quite a lot done.  I've almost finished up my laundry--including washing my old comforter and sheets and mattress pad and all my rugs.

The rugs still have to go into the dryer, but basically every single thing that needed to be washed has been washed.  I have a small load of colored clothes that I am going to toss in tomorrow.  I don't really need to wash them, but what the heck.  Might as well get it done.

I am in shock that tomorrow is the last day of my Christmas break.  How could it go so fast?

I have almost everything done that I really wanted and needed to get done done.  Today, in addition to laundry, I cooked chicken and rice. I tried something new by adding carrots to it.  I ate some when it came out of the oven and it was pretty darn good, if I do say so myself.  It had onions, celery, carrots, rice, chicken broth, cream of mushroom soup, chicken tenders, a little soy sauce, a little Lowry's season salt, and a little bit of butter so it wouldn't stick to the bottom of the roaster.

I also cleaned and cut up the big pineapple I had bought.  I ate some of it and it is delicious. 

I did up the dishes after I did my cooking.  I've got the stuff to make spaghetti, but the hamburger is in the freezer, and I don't want to take it out while I have a lot of other food in the fridge to eat. 

I got down on the floor and worked on the dining room floor.  My vacuum is not the best, and the cat hair seems to weave itself down into the carpet fibers, so I went over the rug with the vacuum, then I used my cat brust with the wire bristles to "comb" the cat hair up off the carpet.  I found a lovely patch of dried up puke under the table which I had not previously been aware of.  Ugh.  The "combing" process works well to get the cat hair up from the carpet, but it stirs up a lot of dust and other crap and sort of suffocates me.  At least I wasn't wheezing this time.  No asthma attacks triggered.

While I was crawing around on the floor, I tidied up the boxes that I had saved from stuff being mailed to me.  They are all stacked in the southeast corner of the dining room right now.  I'd like to move them into the back room downstairs, but right now that room is in such terrible disarray that moving them would be impossible.

I moved all four of my big five gallon containers of water over by the kitchen so there would be less distance to carry them when the jug on the dispenser goes dry.  Those suckers are heavy.  I just tipped them on their sides and rolled them to their new location.  Worked for me.

Between trips up and down the basement, I sat in my big chair in the living room and worked on a little white blouse with red dots on it for DK's little granddaughter.  I finished it all but to sew on the snaps and perhaps a decorative red button or ribbon on the front.  I'm real pleased with how cute it turned out.  I will have to be sure that I make a few pieces that can be used with it--like red pants or a little skirt or something.

I'll take pictures at some point.

Today, I just had too much other stuff to do.

Tomorrow, I have a few things that I REALLY want to get done.  The last thing for down stairs is that I want to get the living room vacuumed.  Then I want to just run the duster over all the furniture--get the bulk of the dust off.  Upstairs, I still need to scrub the bathroom floor and the hallway.  It won't take long once I just get at it, but I HATE getting down on the floor to do all that scrubbing.

When I came upstairs, I took a bubble bath.  I was feeling sweaty and dirty from all the cleaning and I wanted to be clean to crawl into my nice clean bed.

Now I am lying in my bed, smelling like the cherry blossom bubble bath I used.  I seldom take a bubble bath because it seems to dry my skin out.

Yesterday, I met Jim and DeAnn and Swayze in Owatonna for lunch at the Chinese place by Walmart.  Swayzers was in rare form.  He was having a little hissy fit at one point because he wanted the cell phone and DeAnn wouldn't let him have it (because he was into throwing stuff across the room...lol...)  He just was winding himself up to a real fit, and I distracted him by acting excited, pointing at the ceiling and saying, "DUCKS!"  

It was hilarious.  He was looking all over for those ducks.  He DID forget about the cell phone.  LOL.  After a bit, we were all just sitting there eating when he perked up, pointed at the ceiling and said, "DUCK!"

It was just tooooo cute.

While DeAnn took Swayze to the bathroom for a diaper change, Jim and I were sitting at the table eating.  A skinny man with long hair and a lot of facial hair was at the dessert table, I looked up and he was looking at me.  I sort of smiled and nodded at him--my polite but distant smile.  Whenever some guy is looking at me like that, I always think that he is thinking, "OMG, that is the FATTEST woman I have ever seen!!"  And then I brace myself for the rude comment that is sure to come...

BUT, in this case it wasn't that.  He kept hovering around and finally one of us said something--I think I said hi then he said hi, and I suddenly realized it was MICAH.  Micah Olsen who graduated back in the early '90s.  I think he smiled, and that gave it away.  

I said, "MICAH!"  

And he said, "MISS CHERYL HARPEL!"

And then he bustled around the end of the booth and leaned down to give me a huge bear hug.    We chatted a bit, and he said he had served 12 years in the Navy, which made me think poignantly of my little sweatpea....God, I am missing him so much today.  He also told me he was retired because somehow he had a lot of damage done to his ears in the Navy and was now almost deaf.  He's on a pension now.  I said, "No fair that you get to retire before me!" 

He also told me that he had gone to college and had gotten his degree in English Literature.  He said, "You are the reason I took that major.  Seriously."  At some point he told me he loved me and that he had thought he would never see me again but that he had never forgotten me and what a huge influence I had had in his life.

Well, that touched me pretty deeply.  Funny how I had looked at him a few moments before that, thinking he was judging me hideous and grotesque when in fact he was looking at me wondering if it was really me and being filled with affection and hope.

I guess that will teach ME.  It was definitely an unexpected ego booster. 

We exchanged phone numbers and he said repeatedly that we would have to get together and have coffee (well, I'll have tea...lol).  I will have to call him.  I love my kids so intensely while I have them--then they grow up and leave me to become adults--I always love them, but I never really get to keep connected to them much--life is always so freaking busy.  I always wonder how they are doing and hope that they are happy.

Anyhow, Micah is living in Owatonna now, so we at least are moderately close together.

I went by Altell on my way home so that I could get "My Circle" set up so I wouldn't have a several hundred dollar cell phone bill.  I got it all good to go, so THAT is done.  I got a Chai tea latte at Starbucks--it was way too hot to drink on the way home, but it was JUST RIGHT by the time I got home.

I went upstairs and snuggled my cat a bit and had a little nap.

When I woke up it was time to go to Jim and DeAnn's--they had invited me over to have some Asti.  It was awesome.  I haven't had any Asti in a long, long time, and I do love that stuff.

Josue was in fine fettle all night.  He played and played and played.  He occasionally came over to give my arm a snuggle, and once he even gave me a kiss!  Even the elusive Bear came down and let me pet him a little.  I brought along some yarn and worked on an afghan while I was there.  I have this really pretty blue thread that I am going to use with white thread and possibly some yellow, if I don't thing I have enough of the white and blue.  I have a whole suitcase full of yarn, and I would like to use it up on projects that are productive.  I don't think  a person can ever have too many afghans and blankets and things.

I guess there is nothing else noteworthy to record.  I cannot find my damn upstairs remote, which is irking the crap out of me.  But that's about it.




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Well, the first couple days of workshop went well.  I'm already tired.  LOL.  I needed the weekend to recover--after only two days.  Of course, it was a lot of talking and sitting work.  I find that more tiring than teaching.

I got some of my stuff ready for my classes and other forms printed off for my homeroom kids for scheduling.  I will have nine kids total--I'll get Cody, Tyler, Drew, and Zach
 back.  I'll have five new kids.  I hope they all meld well.  I lost Christine and Lisa as they graduated last year.  Monique is going into a different homeroom as Jay thinks that would be best for her.  (I am a little too soft--she needs someone a little tougher.)

Not much else to say about school...I'm looking forward to seeing the kids on Tuesday.  I love summer, but I do miss working with my kids.  They give me a kind of energy that I can't get any other way.

Yesterday I spiffed up my house, especially downstairs.  I had a bunch of clutter piling up.  I don't want it to get out of control just because school is starting up.  

I had a sinkful of dishes (mostly knives and glasses) to wash, and I sacked up a lot of trash.  My butt has been dragging both today and yesterday--not used to being back on the "school schedule" yet.  I'll adjust soon.

Jim and DeAnn asked me if I wanted to go out for supper with them last night--after Ingrid had asked if I wanted to go to see the new Mummy movie and go out for supper.  Then Ingrid called back later and said she was too tired to go to the movie, and just wanted to do supper.  So, I suggested we all go to supper together.  We went to the Chinese Buffet by Walmart.  

Josue was a little fussy in the car on the way to town--giving out a few blood-curdling squeals of discontent--but he was fine in the restaurant.  He is so much fun  to watch when he eats.  He shoves  the food in his mouth then says, "MMmmmmmmmmmm."  It's just so darn cute.  He's especially fond of watermelon and strawberries.  And he loves rice.  He loves it when I pretend to eat up his fingers and giggles like a little fiend.

Ingrid brought me some Barbie sized wicker furniture that she bought at a garage sale--I didn't have the heart to tell her I already had two or three sets exactly like it--she thought she had done such a wonderful thing.  And it WAS wonderful--very sweet of her to buy it for me.  Also, it was in excellent shape, and I have a TON of Barbies who need places to sit.

I rode home with Ingrid in her VW beetle convertible with the top and windows down.  It was almost chilly.  But it was refreshing.

When I got home I watched a couple episodes of CSI:  SVU.  I am madly in love with Elliot Stabler.  LOL.

Then, I chatted with a couple of friends on Instant Messenger and went to sleep.  And speaking of sleep--I'm feeling ready for a nap right now.

*yawn*

My two big goals for today are doing laundry and getting my bills paid.  I also need to clean out the fridge.  I bought some chicken which did not get cooked, and I am sure it is no good.  Chicken doesn't last long.







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